A Harmonious Relationship Between Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law – Tips for Getting Along

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Recently, I watched some excerpts from the movie “Let Him Go” with Kevin Costner and Diane Lane. It showed me how relevant and necessary this topic is. Misunderstandings and unspoken expectations often characterise the relationship between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law. However, with a bit of sensitivity, openness, and respect, a harmonious relationship can develop, enriching family […]

The Anchor of the Soul: Grandparents as a Source of Unconditional Love

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Grandparents are silent architects of emotional resilience within the family. Their role extends far beyond mere childcare; they are the guardians of a precious gift: unconditional love. This unique form of affection is at the heart of their function as emotional support and mentors, profoundly shaping the psychological development of their grandchildren. The Psychology of […]

Grandparents and Raising Grandchildren – Opportunities and Boundaries

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Grandparents play a valuable and often indispensable role in their grandchildren’s lives. They are not only loving caregivers but also essential supporters of parents and transmitters of values and traditions. But how does this role play out in practice, and how can grandparents take on their responsibilities constructively without provoking conflicts with parents? This article […]

The Role of Grandparents in the Family: Support Through Presence, Guidance Through Wisdom

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Grandparents play an irreplaceable role in family life: they convey identity and values, provide emotional stability, complement parental upbringing, and build bridges between generations. Their role is not to replace or direct parents but to accompany, support, and enrich daily life with experience, affection, and wisdom. When performed correctly, their role strengthens the family, promotes […]

Guidelines for Families with a Disabled Child at Home

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Initial Guidance Promoting Acceptance and Understanding Parents should accept their child’s disability and engage deeply with their specific needs. This not only helps in making the best decisions but also strengthens the child emotionally. “Acceptance of the disability is the first step to fostering and unlocking the child’s potential.”– Oliver Heine, Inclusion and Parenting (2019) […]

Caring for Relatives: Avoiding Overwhelm with a Plan

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Caring for a relative with a disability is a demanding task that requires significant time, energy, and dedication. Parents who take on this responsibility risk neglecting their own health. However, with a structured approach and clear strategies, you can avoid overwhelm and provide the best possible support for both yourself and your loved ones. 1. […]

The Role of Fathers in Raising Children

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Some time ago, I watched a documentary about families in which the father was no longer present. The film showed a teenager who used to climb cranes. When asked by the journalist whether this wasn’t dangerous, he replied: “My father is no longer at home, and my mother doesn’t care what I do.” This film […]

Overprotection of Children – From Helicopter to People-Pleaser: What’s Really Behind It

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The Label Jungle Helicopter, lawnmower, submarine, permissive, over-parenting, people-pleaser: It’s hard to find a parenting guide without buzzwords. They sound dramatic – and they create uncertainty. However, behind these six popular labels are not six entirely different worlds but rather a few recurring psychological patterns. Recognising these patterns can help to de-escalate behaviour and make […]

The Adventure of Love – A Book by Arturo Cattaneo

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This article summarises the key messages of Arturo Cattaneo’s book. 1. Marriage as a Lifelong Project of Dedication and Growth Rationale: Marriage is not a “finished product” but a journey that requires continuous effort and mutual growth. The union of spouses is confirmed by the sacrament, but the relationship must be nurtured daily. 2. The […]